Very many religious hypocrites and self righteous pretenders have been peddling hate and prejudice against ladies who for some reasons decide to end the life of the future beings (existence postponed) in them.
It’s within their (the hypocrites) rights to say what they want but I would candidly say that they’re fools.
A picture of men, who considering their beards, the french and Latin dictionaries describe them as fools.
In my very correct senses, which are always correct, I will never blame a lady who procures an abortion once, twice or even thirteen times. And don’t think that I’m nonreligious by having such a stand, I pray by the way, in our respected Legio-Maria church which my grandfather, the great Chief Magwar Otike claims to have contributed to it’s survival in its foundational days.
Back to the abortion topic, I feel for these ladies, and even you would (will) feel for them as much as I do. Here’s why;
The biggest factor that makes young ladies opt to abort is the fear of birth. Giving birth is a nightmare associated with unbearable pain (courtesy of Eve stealing fruits in the garden of Eden) but even so worse, the effects of birth which all young ladies fear.
Teenage birth leads to merciless distortion of the va**#a ( as I’ve heard it severally said by my friend Augus) and no lady in her young years wishes to be referred to as “wide” (sic) They all want to be ” tight”.(sic!!)
My very tall 30 year old neighbour, Augus Ogao who peddles the tight and wide theory.
Birth, especially teenage birth, leads to sagging of breasts (boobs). After a hungry child sucking away and pulling those breasts for over a year, little to admire is left on them. Remember they’re among a young girl’s assets, especially if they’re upright and courageous.
A day-time imagination of courageous breasts before birth.
Birth carries very high chances of obesity. A well figured lady loses appetite when she thinks of losing shape and all of a sudden becoming flabby and huge. By the way, all men like ladies with figure. Who will date her after she loses her figure courtesy of birth? Baboons or men from mars?
A lady with delicious and round figure before birth; just like my ex.
Ladies in their early years want to enjoy life. Being free is part of it and having a child to look after and worry about is furthest from the deal.
The other good reason ladies end up aborting is the potential father figure to their unborn babies. Ladies like fun with some people they wouldn’t marry even if they’re paid to. In most cases, they’re big babies who have no manners at all, no sense of responsibility or social outcasts. But still, ladies just like fun with them and sometimes fun becomes not funny when a pregnancy is the result. To make things simple, a lady aborts (for the child’s sake) for the fear of what a clown of a father the child will meet in this harsh world.
The judgemental world disguised as family values, societal virtues and hypocritical norms often weighs down with immense guilt, ladies who find themselves in the family way and being (sentimental) ladies, they can’t imagine living in that world of ever hearing accusing whispers, facing accusing eyes and pointers and being the bad lesson example in the society_ and our good ladies end up ending the young life inside her.
With life and career dreams, ambitions and family plans, having a child before the right time is as good as an obstacle and with our families having expectations and standards to meet (plus the families our ladies will get married to) for their happiness and blessings, what other option do our ladies have?
Photography; where some ladies might harbour strong dreams
Don’t forget the harsh economic conditions too. If buying a good condom or a morning after-pill was a problem, which miracle will enable paying of the maternity hospital bills leave alone buying of napkins, baby food and all related expenses?
As I finish, half of these guys who judgementally blame these ladies contribute to their aborting by the high standards they have set, half of the remaining half, abort through the condoms they use (and throw away the fertile sperms inside those condoms) and the remaining half of the half that remain masturbate. Same applies to ladies whose bodies are full of birth control metals, injections and birth control pills make up half their diet.
My advise is simple; live your own life and leave others live theirs as they choose to live it.
Someone very lazy living his non-judgemental life
Bishop Pirate Senior Esq
UoN; BSc, Wisdomship Applied.
Bishop of Hope and Smiles
Upright Thinker, Part-time joker
Headed to heaven
The views are purely the writer’s opinion during lunch time (and are subject to change three seconds from now) and do not reflect his family or religious values.